Something I strive for is finding what I'm passionate about in life. It makes life feel more complete, more fulfilling. The easiest way to do this is to go outside of your comfort zone in order to try new things; you'll never experience life nor find what you truly enjoy in life by standing still. I myself took a little goading (and the occasional kick in the ass) to get to where I am now.
Try to live each day to your own expectations; don't let yourself be tied doen by the expectations of others. Experience new things. Find the thing/s that bring your life joy.